Why are There so Many Pro Se Parents in the Family Courts?
Family law attorneys only know how to follow the leader. They do what they have always done because they don't know anything else.
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Fix Family Courts ChannelWhy are There so Many Pro Se Parents in the Family Courts?
Published: February 01, 2022
Are you having trouble finding an attorney that will fight for your parental rights? Family courts have been violating parental rights and children's rights for so long that it is the norm. Just like slavery was the norm, and women not having rights was the norm, Jim Crow laws were the norm, etc. Lots of parents are fighting to create change now. When you need to know what to fight for and how. www.FixFamilyCourts.com/Membership We have the #1 parental rights arguments.
How to Stay Strong on the Winding Road of Life
Life is a long trip that never stays on a straight path. Sometimes the road is smooth and easy to see. Other times, the road turns in ways we do not expect. In the year 2026, many people feel like they are driving through the dark. They do not know where the road ends or where it will lead them next. This is a common feeling for anyone trying to reach a goal. You might feel lost or tired from driving through the day and the night. However, the most important thing is to keep moving forward. You must not let the turns in the road stop you from reaching your destination.
The Mystery of the Winding Road
Life does not come with a map. You often have to figure out where the road goes as you drive it. This can be scary because there is no telling where the path will lead. You might find yourself in a place you never planned to visit. When the road winds, it tests your focus. You have to pay attention to every turn and every bump.
Many people want to know exactly what will happen tomorrow. They want a clear view of the future. But life is not always clear. It is more like a winding road through a forest or over a mountain. You can only see as far as your headlights reach. You must trust that the road continues even when you cannot see the end.
Moving forward is the only way to find out what is around the next corner. If you stop because you are afraid of the turns, you will never reach the finish line. You have to be okay with the mystery. You have to be okay with not knowing the final stop.
Driving Through the Days and Nights
Success takes a lot of time and effort. It often feels like a long drive that lasts for days and nights. You might feel like you are the only one on the road. The stars might be your only company as you push through the dark hours. This represents the hard work that happens when no one is watching.
People see the results, but they do not see the long hours of driving. They do not see the times you wanted to pull over and quit. Driving through the night means you have the grit to keep going when things are hard. It means you are willing to work while others are sleeping.
Why Consistency Matters
When you are on a long journey, you cannot just drive for an hour and expect to arrive. You have to keep the car moving.
- Keep your eyes on the road.
- Do not let distractions slow you down.
- Maintain your speed even when you are tired.
- Believe that the morning will come.
The road does not stop for traffic lights. This means you should not let small problems stop your progress. If you see a red light in life, find a way to keep your momentum. Do not let the world tell you when to go and when to stop. You are the driver of your own life.
Keeping Your Head High During the Fall
Everyone falls down at some point. You might make a mistake or face a big problem. Some people call this losing your mind. They might think you are crazy for trying so hard. They might tell you to give up and stay on the ground.
You must ignore those voices. Even if you are falling down, you must keep searching for the truth. Keep your eyes open and look for a way back up. Holding your head high is a choice you make. It is a sign of pride and strength.
| Situation | How to React |
|---|---|
| You make a mistake | Learn from it and move on |
| People judge you | Keep your head high |
| The sky feels like it is falling | Stay calm and keep searching |
| You feel lost | Trust the road will appear |
Even if the sky is falling down, you have to stay strong. The world might feel like it is ending, but you are still here. You still have the power to choose your path. Falling is not the end of the story. It is just a part of the trip.
Jumping From Cliffs and Taking Risks
Sometimes the road ends at a cliff. You cannot drive any further. You have to make a choice. Do you turn back, or do you jump? The most successful people are the ones who are willing to jump. They trust their wings to fly even if they have never used them before.
Jumping from a cliff is a metaphor for taking a big risk. This could be starting a new job or moving to a new city. It could be sharing a new idea with the world. It is a moment of pure faith. You do not know if you will fly or if you will crash.
Trusting Your Wings
We all have "wings" inside us. These are our skills, our talents, and our will to survive. Most of the time, we do not know how strong our wings are because we stay on the ground. We stay where it is safe.
- Recognize the moment to jump.
- Trust the skills you have built.
- Do not look back at the ground.
- Feel the wind and start flapping.
When you trust your wings, you discover a new way to travel. You are no longer stuck on the winding road. You can see the world from a higher place. This only happens if you are brave enough to leave the solid ground behind.
Crashing Down and Starting Over
Not every jump ends in flight. Sometimes we crash. We hit the ground hard and it hurts. This is the part of life that no one likes to talk about. Crashing can feel like a total failure. It can make you want to stay on the ground forever.
But the ground is where you start over. It is the foundation for your next attempt. When you crash, you have to get up. You have to dust yourself off and look at the road again.
Crashing is just a lesson in how to fly better next time. Maybe you didn't flap hard enough. Maybe the wind was too strong. Whatever the reason, the ground is not your home. You belong back on the road or in the sky.
Searching for the Light
In the middle of the struggle, you really want to know where the road goes. You want to know if the pain is worth it. You are searching for "eyes" or a light to guide you. This search is what keeps you alive. It is the curiosity that fuels your engine.
Never stop searching for answers. The moment you stop asking where the road goes is the moment you stop growing. Even if you feel like you have lost your mind, keep looking. The light is out there, even if it is currently hidden by the turns in the road.
Stay focused on your goals. Do not let the darkness of the night make you forget why you started the drive. The road is long, but it has a purpose. Every mile you cover makes you a better driver. Every turn you take makes you smarter.
Why You Should Never Stop
Life will always be a winding road. There will always be nights where you feel alone. There will always be cliffs that ask you to jump. This is what it means to be alive in 2026. You have to be tough. You have to be willing to keep your head high when things go wrong.
If you are feeling tired today, remember that the road is still there. It is waiting for you to put your foot on the gas. Do not stop for the traffic lights of doubt or fear. Keep driving through the day and the night. You will eventually figure out where the road goes.
When you finally reach a high point, you will look back at the winding road. You will see all the turns and the places where you crashed. You will realize that those moments made the view even better. The struggle is what makes the destination special. Keep searching, keep jumping, and keep driving. Your wings are stronger than you think.
The sky might fall, and the road might turn, but you are the one in control of the wheel. Do not let go. Keep your head high and watch the road unfold before you. Your journey is just beginning.
Video Transcript
You know you have rights. But the judge and the attorney say you don’t. You know better than that. So, you decide to do it yourself. Even though it is scary and nerve racking. The majority of parents that have contacted us have said that they cannot find an attorney to fight for their parental rights. Even after calling over a hundred attorneys in some cases. Parents are told that the judge can do what he wants. Despite telling attorneys that you have rights that limit the judge’s discretion. Attorneys tell you that the judges don’t care. It is your attorney’s job to make the judge care. But when they refuse… what choice do you have but to do it yourself. Parents we know found representing themselves liberating but time consuming. But totally worth it. There’s nothing worse than having an attorney and not being able to fight back. Parents who learn parental rights from us save time and do better. Are happier, feel better, protect their dignity and have self-esteem! Save Money. And most get better results. Although we teach you about your fundamental rights, you will also need to learn the procedural rules. Those you will have to learn from other sources. Not knowing those rules can prevent you from entering evidence or from being heard. We will share what we can on these too. But we are NOT a substitute for an attorney and cannot teach you all you need to know about state specific rules. Parents who learn our materials are more effective. And get better outcomes for most. All parents who use their rights are helping society learn to do this right! Protecting children and future generations! When that gavel comes down… that’s it. Everything after is based on what was argued prior to that time. Do NOT count on modifying later. Your want justice… fight for it now! We’ve done the hard work for you. Your rights are just waiting for you to use them. The Bar Association has imposed harm on you and your family… by making attorneys afraid to protect these rights. We will help you learn so you can teach your attorney… and if your attorney fails you, you will know how to do it yourself. We help you use your power to decide how you want to live your life. We help you take control of your life back. What are you waiting for? Come see us now!